
The Heart of It All: Navigating Relationships with Clarity and Compassion
1st May 2025Written by Nicola Ball, Mental Health Expert & CBT Therapist
As we step into June, the halfway mark of the year, many of us find ourselves caught between what we hoped would happen in the first six months and what actually did. It’s easy to fall into a spiral of guilt, frustration, or feeling like we’re not quite where we should be. But here’s the thing: there is no “should be.”
This is your permission slip to pause. To reflect. To reset.
June is the perfect time for a mid-year mental health check-in. It’s not about overhauling your life in one week, nor is it about pretending everything’s fine when it’s not. It’s about gently asking yourself: How am I really doing? What do I need? And what small steps can I take to support myself through the rest of the year?
Let’s look at three powerful ways to mentally reset: Reflect, Reframe and Re-energise.
Reflection isn’t about criticism; it’s about curiosity. It’s easy to beat ourselves up for not achieving every New Year’s resolution, but that misses the point. A mid-year reflection is a check-in, not a checkpoint.
Try asking yourself:
Reflection allows us to slow down long enough to notice patterns — helpful or unhelpful. And once we see them, we can make conscious choices rather than running on autopilot.
Use tools like:
REFRAME: Changing the Narrative
If your inner voice has been saying things like:
…then it’s time to reframe.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) teaches us that our thoughts directly influence our emotions and behaviours. Often, we hold onto unhelpful core beliefs without even realising it.
Instead of: “I’m failing at everything.”
Try: “This year didn’t go as planned, but I’m learning more about what I need.”
Instead of: “I’ll never get it right.”
Try: “I’m making progress, even if it looks different from what I expected.”
Reframing doesn’t mean ignoring reality or being blindly optimistic. It means offering yourself a more balanced, compassionate perspective — one that gives you the power to move forward, not shut down.
Burnout is real, and many of us are running on fumes by June. Re-energising isn’t about pushing through; it’s about replenishing your tank.
Ask yourself:
Energy isn’t just about sleep. It’s about boundaries, stimulation, purpose, and connection. Sometimes, re-energising means saying no. Other times, it means saying yes to something new.
Simple energy boosts include:
Practical Reset Tools
At The Talking Rooms, we believe in accessible, practical tools for everyday mental wellbeing. For your mid-year reset, we recommend:
What the Rest of the Year Could Look Like
You don’t need to have a perfect plan for July through December. But what you can do is set an intention. Something as simple as:
The mid-year reset is not a punishment or a productivity hack. It’s a moment of self-compassion. A moment to breathe, to re-centre, and to remind yourself that you’re not behind — you’re exactly where you need to be to begin again.
Here’s to the next chapter.
With kindness,
Nicola Ball
CBT Therapist & Founder, The Talking Rooms